things do not happen on their own. as they say, it takes two hands to clap. similarly, things wldnt end up the way they are if there wasnt an impetus which had propelled it. and till the other party willingly steps out of its' narrow mindset and see things in the bigger picture, no amount of why are you so cold towards mes answers will matter. so till then, i hope everyone's as jolly as me. (:

Merry Christmas!
Hohohohoho.